How to encourage a loved one with hearing loss to seek help
Posted by Pamela Matthews, AuD, CCC-A on October 14, 2021
It’s been proven that — left untreated — hearing loss can have a negative effect on our quality of life. Studies have linked untreated hearing loss to decreased cognitive function, higher incidences of hospitalizations, falls and depression, and increased risk of social isolation and dementia.
Those studies don’t take into account how ignoring hearing loss can diminish social interactions, television and movie watching, enjoyment of music and nature, and increase our feelings of missing out. Or how leaving hearing loss untreated can put our personal safety at risk or make our jobs harder.
Still, many people who have hearing loss don’t do anything about it. Instead, they choose to rely on coping mechanisms like asking others to repeat themselves, turning the TV and radio up annoyingly loud, or isolating themselves from activities and events that used to bring them joy.
Of course, it’s possible they don’t realize or aren’t convinced they have hearing loss — because they’ve subconsciously been using those coping methods, or because they haven’t taken a hearing test in a long time.
What you can do
What can you do if you have a friend or loved one who has hearing loss but doesn’t want to deal with it? Each person is unique and needs to be approached differently, but here are a few things you can do to encourage them to seek hearing help.
Remind them that they aren’t the only one affected by their hearing loss
You and others close to them are impacted too. It could be as simple as frustration at having to repeat things over and over during conversations. Or it could be concern that they will miss important warning sounds, alarms, news alerts or information. And no one wants to see someone they care about become socially isolated or depressed for any reason, let alone something that is treatable, like hearing loss.
Make them aware of the quality-of-life risks associated with hearing loss
The beginning of this blog runs through a short list of quality-of-life risks linked to hearing loss. But also let them know that other studies have demonstrated the positive effects of treating hearing loss, like that adults who wore hearing aids reported a significant improvement in their quality of life, or how treating hearing loss early is the biggest modifiable risk factor for preventing dementia.
If falls are a concern, you’ll be comforted to note that — for people with hearing loss — wearing hearing aids is linked to lower risk of falls, while our newest hearing aids are the only hearing aids that can automatically detect falls and send alerts to caregivers. This can give them a greater sense of independence, while giving you peace of mind.
Point out that the stigma associated with hearing aids is going away
Today’s hearing aids are so small and discreet, and so many people are wearing things on and in their ears, that wearing hearing aids goes virtually unnoticed. Yes, we know that there is still some hesitancy, but the benefits of hearing better are making hearing aid stigma disappear more and more each day.
Recommend they take a hearing test
Again, we know many people might not realize or be convinced they have hearing loss, as few people get their hearing tested regularly. Encourage your friend or loved one to take a free online hearing test or visit a local hearing professional for a more thorough test and ear examination.
Offer to accompany them on their first appointment with a hearing professional
Some people may have anxiety about visiting a hearing professional. You can put them at ease by going to the appointment with them.
You could also offer to compile helpful information by visiting a few websites about hearing aids and hearing loss. Doing so will help your loved one feel prepared and more confident going into their appointment.
Remind them that sooner is better
Finally, don’t be surprised if they are hesitant to seek help for their hearing loss. Be gentle and consistent. On average, hearing aid wearers wait 10 years to seek treatment, so there’s a good chance your loved one is aware of their hearing problem, but just needs a little push of encouragement and support to treat it.
The sooner they get help and treat their hearing loss, the sooner they’ll begin to enjoy all the benefits of hearing their very best.